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Centaury
is the flower remedy for those who have permitted themselves to
be dominated by others. Such people tend to allow themselves to
be easily exploited because they lack a strong sense of self. To
win approval, these people also often neglect their own needs in
order to please others. Centaury strengthens the will of such sensitive
people and helps them to develop their weakened self esteem.
This dainty
plant grows to a height of 2-14 in along roadsides and in dry meadows.
The plain stalk has branches only on the upper third of its stem.
The pinkish purple blossoms open in sunny weather from June to September.
Because of its bitter taste, centaury has been called "gall
of the earth". In Greek myth, the centaur Chiron applied it
to his wounds.
Therapeutic
effects
Centaury strengthens self esteem, helping one to recognize the value
of her individuality. This allows people to interact with others
with clarity and purpose rather than with weakness. Centaury is
also an herbal strengthener, defending against infection. Its bitter
components make it a useful digestive tonic; it increases stomach
secretions and speeds up the breakdown of foods.
Recognizing
the centaury personality
You might have a centaury personality if you prefer to give in rather
than risk a quarrel with a stronger person or if you can't say no.
do you try to fulfill every demand made by your family or your boss?
Are you often overworked and tired because you don't pay attention
to your own limits? Did you turn down your dream job because you
were expected to take over the family business? Or do you hide your
feelings in order not to disappoint others? All of these indicate
a low self esteem.
Promoting
self esteem
With each new task, ask yourself whether you truly want to do what
has been asked of you. Consider whether the demand being made on
you serves your best interests. Discuss the situation with someone
you can trust. Try to realize that pleasing others while neglecting
your own needs does not help either your own development or that
of others.
Centaury
for children
Children with centaury personalities are well behaved and always
fulfilling the expectations of parents and teachers. They may be
exploited by their playmates because, in their desire to please,
they set no limits. They can quickly become scapegoats. It is believed
that centaury will help them to stand up for themselves and make
them aware of their own individuality
Extra
Tip
If your body has been exhausted by long illness and your will has
been weakened, centaury may help bring you new strength and vitality,
reinforcing your resolve to regain your health.
Serve
others from inner strength, be true to yourself
Wildflower
Medley
A mixture of centaury and walnut flower essence can make a positive
difference for anyone who is at a turning point in life - for example,
in a new relationship or making a career change-but is unable to
ignore the overpowering influence of others. Put 2 drops each of
centaury and walnut flower essences in 1 oz. of springwater. Shake
the mixture well and take it upto 4 times a day as needed.
Flower Power
Symptoms
of imbalance
- Ignoring
personal life goals
- Tendency
to be exploited by others
- Anxiety about
being good natured
- Loss of independent
will
- Adoption
of others idiosyncrasies
- Excessive
helpfulness
- Desperate
need for praisea
- Self sacrifice
Potential
positive qualities
- Increased
self esteem
- Pursuit of
personal life goals
- Increased
ability to say no and set boundaries with others
- Willingness
to face inner truths
- Courage to
make necessary changes
- Ability to
serve without loss of identity
- Healthy recognition
of personal needs
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